Welcome to Love For Wits: the Ideal Place For Dating Smart and Witty People Online (or otherwise)

Love for Wits.Com was created to be a unique relationship site for intelligent singles with a sense of humor and culture. And what else makes LFW different? Unlike Match, Brainiac, POFish, etc., we carefully screen and authenticate members, require more in-depth profiles, include more privacy options, and provide our members with a culture-brimming, media-rich environment, the likes of which can be found on no other dating site ... We want you to grow with us. Welcome!

If you are a guest visitor, click as follows to see samples of our current cosmos of smart, cultured and witty types (deep breath, brace yourself). Guests can also see the "60 Newest Wits" below:

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16 Sex Positions And Tricks You Should Try In 2016 It’s that blessed time of year, ladies and gentlemen. Once again, we’re on the cusp of the wonderful new year, which can only mean one thing: all t… Read more

Wearing rubber gloves in the bath and trying to swallow a watermelon: The desperate poses of Russians looking for love online (which may reveal why they are single!) From mermaids to swords, welcome to the world of … Read more

From a great piece on LIFEHACK:Many people believe that long distance relationships are never going to work out. Your family may discourage it, and some of your best friends may advise you not to take it too seriousl… Read more

Dating Intelligent People just wrote to inform us of a new article they wrote debunking an author's claims that smart men fit a characteristic stereotype.  Excerpt below and link to the article. Comments welcome.___… Read more

Online Dating: Does It Pay to Play Up Your Flaws?BY JESSICA BENNETT 1/12/11 AT 9:27 AM (from Newsweek.com)GETTY IMAGES     Filed Under: CultureWe’ve all heard the stories about h… Read more

I RECENTLY HAD A PRETTY LAME CONVERSATION (if you could even call it a conversation, you’ll see why) with a man from a dating site with whom I’d been emailing for a couple of weeks. The emails were pretty good: … Read more

From a review of the book, "Intelligent Woman's Guide to Online Dating" by Dr. Dale: "Despite dating over 100 men in three years before finding her Mr. Right, her advice is really pretty light on how to navigate the… Read more

A great and cute piece from Buzzfeed!WHEN YOU ARE TOGETHER YOU SPEND THE WHOLE TIME IN BED Read more

From "Seven Ways to Spot a Phony on An Online Dating Site" by Tyler Wood on Huffington PostMy husband and I used the Internet to get to know each other when we first met. Those were the days before online dating, but b… Read more

From Slate. Anna Gensler attempts to get back at online "creeps" by drawing them with little penises. Will it work? Here is a sample.Read on to find out.Slate: I’ve noticed that most of these men are rendered wi… Read more

FROM THE BOROWITZ REPORT in the New YorkerMENLO PARK, CA (The Borowitz Report)—One day after Google outbid Facebook for a manufacturer of solar-powered drones, Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg served warning that h… Read more

Great piece on A.com re "Signs of an Internet Dating Scam ..."  Some tips on spotting scammers in emails: Communication is vague, difficult to understand or is repeated. Immediate (within 15 minutes) responses… Read more

If they're searching all over the U.S., and the world for superior mates, why not just come to Love For Wits?To think, lonely peeps out there are paying tens of thousands to potentially meet someone they've never seen an… Read more

Sex, Lies, and More Lies

A few slices from PLENTY OF FISH TALES!Cute:Sex, Lies And More LiesMon, 01/03/2011 - 17:46Liars, theives, and addictsI met this girl on Plenty Of Fish and we chatted for a bit then decided to finally meet. The next day w… Read more

LFW presents a unique, arousing, and comprehensive video tutorial on how to use various kissing techniques to properly please a woman.  We at Love for Wits can't emphasize this enough ... assuming of course, you hav… Read more